As graduation approaches, I have begun to reflect on my college career. I could clearly see how I had grown academically. I learned skills, techniques, and tricks to solve problems. I learned new formulas and definitions that helped me understand the information. I learned how to run programs like Excel effectively and efficiently. I can take notes and study without wasting time, but what other areas did I improve in? That’s when it hit me, the most important thing I got from college was a social life.
In high school, I was a busy kid and never took the time to really gain social skills. I had friends, but I didn’t do well with strangers. Being in a room full of people, especially new ones, didn’t appeal to me. That was a significant weakness. I would shy away from networking and interpersonal skills. When I got to college, I didn’t know where to start, but I knew I wanted to work on these skills.
When I got on campus, I could feel the tendency to shy away coming back. I forced myself to get out of my room and hang out in public spaces. I started going to my residence hall’s events and doing more schoolwork in the lobby. I made intentional efforts to talk to people and expand my network. I realized the potential of joining campus clubs and other organizations. I joined the powerlifting team, the chemistry club, and other campus groups. I quickly developed the skills to make connections and thrive in social environments.
Now that I’m looking for a job, I can see how improving my social life has improved my professional life. Interviews are no longer scary. I can hold a conversation while holding eye contact. I have found ways to direct conversations, but also learned how to listen. Anytime I go to a new place, I try to leave with one new connection. I have built relationships that have strengthened my network and provided me with mentors.
Being social used to be hard; now it’s one of my greatest skills. If you already have a good social life, I encourage you to find ways to apply it to your career. If you struggle, as I did, I encourage you to start getting yourself out there. The ability to be social is one of the greatest skill sets you can have in your professional life. It is something you cannot lose but can always use.
Connor Corley
Connor is a senior entrepreneurial finance major with a minor in chemistry. He serves as a Resident Assistant and a Career Services Ambassador. He is a part of the powerlifting team, and plans to work in the oil and gas industry after graduation.
